Complications- me no likey!

So the guy thinks because I don't like compliments that I have mental health problems, so he had to re-evaluate our friendship. He decided to compromise with me though! Ahhh!!! I tried to be polite about things and to think even more about the changes I do need to make, not for him, but just to be an emotionally happier and healthier person. I've already known how I need to change, and I've been working on it pretty much my whole life, but I realized I do need to try harder. I spoke with my Branch President about all of this, which helped calm me down, and to appreciate the guy a bit more- I mean I already understood where he was coming from, and I knew he wasn't trying to be mean about it, but it had been kind of a slap in the face the way he talked to me about it. President helped me to focus on his intentions a little more. But he told me that he too was concerned by some of the things he said to me and so he told me to be careful with him and to probably talk to him about it. So I'm going to try to find a time to sit down and talk with him, but I'm so nervous- I have such a hard time in situations like these, to form my words, and my thoughts, properly, so that I can coherently, and respectfully, explain myself. I don't want it to turn into a situation where either of us feels put down or misunderstood or disrespected. I would like both of us to listen, and learn. I don't think that there will be anything between us other than friendship, and I will need to somehow tell him that too- I don't know if that's all he's planning on anyway, or if he's looking for more, at least now at this point. But if he is wanting more, and I tell him it can't go beyond friendship I think he'll just end all of it, which will be sad, but I'd understand. It's just the more I get to know him, the more I feel that it wouldn't be able to work out- we'd both be worried about past things recurring, and I think we'd be butting heads a lot, both feeling that we couldn't just be ourselves around the other person. Anyway I'm so tired right now with all that's going on this week-work, school, church, family things, and the guy thing. I think I slept wrong too, because I have a huge headache, though I think it's gone down slightly, but it's been making me queezy, and I haven't been able to think very straight or concentrate well today. Anyway I need to get back to work now.